2 Ways I Crush the Fear of Mom-Failure

Have you ever been afraid to let your kids see you fail because you don’t want to lose control? I’ve been afraid to mess up in front of my kids; to stop being their hero. But when my son Jacob pointed out a failure I couldn’t deny, and I was faced with a choice. I could lie and try to change his perception. I could get mad and scare him out of drawing attention to my faults. Or, I could confess and let him see me in all my imperfect glory.

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3 Ways to Conquer Comparison

In one of her podcasts, Dr. Caroline Leaf suggested that stress isn’t bad. I almost automatically rejected her statement until I heard her reasoning. She suggested that stress is a warning signal from the body telling us that something is going wrong. Our stressful feelings are meant to teach us to adjust our behavior, habits or situation before we bring harm to ourselves. But, if I’m honest, I usually dismiss my stress alarm and figure out how to push it aside and cope instead. Comparison can also be a useful emotion. Without comparison we would have a hard time measuring progress and solving problems. Comparison doesn’t have to become an evil word in our vocabulary, but if we don’t process this emotion correctly we can fall into comparison’s trap- just like stress.

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Start Fighting From Perfection

When we shift all the focus onto our actions, we tie ourselves down and miss out on the pure, loving grace that God offers us, no strings attached. God doesn’t expect us to be perfect, but he does call us to become perfect. Perfection, in and of itself, isn’t wrong (It’s the exact opposite, in fact). It’s all about how you pursue it. Friends, I hope you take encouragement today as we discuss what pursuing perfection in Christ (the right way) looks like.

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Stop Fighting for Perfection

Any perfectionists out there? This one’s for you, and for me. Because as much as I like to think I’ve conquered my propensity for perfectionism, there’s still a part of me that falls prey to it. In my roles as a wife, mom, friend, neighbor, and believer, I sometimes face the temptation to base my self-worth on a checklist of characteristics instead of checking in with a God who cherishes me in my highs and my lows.

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Your Biggest Tool For Conquering Shame

I've noticed something about human nature, while we have been created equal, we are certainly not all created the same. For some of us, shame rolls off our shoulders without a passing thought while others of us take days, weeks or years to rid ourselves of it. We might have been created equal, but we are not the same. Shame can be emotionally tricky, so I want to share with you the biggest tool, or rather mindset, I've learned to conquer shame. Before we can conquer shame, we have to understand what it is, why we feel it.

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3 Ways to Overcome Social Media Addiction

When I was in middle school, our TV busted. We decided not to replace it because Christian culture was preaching that television was a tool of Satan to destroy the universe. It would be tempting to say that social media is also a tool of Satan, but but I don't think we have to throw the baby out with the bathwater. So, I want to provide you with three ways you can fight against social media addiction. 

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If I'm Saved, Why Don't I Feel Free?

Perhaps I'm too introspective, but as I celebrated the 4th of July this year, I began to ask myself, "What is true freedom?" When I think about our culture, freedom seems to mean the ability to live unfettered, unattached and unencumbered. The word freedom seems to currently carry the connotation that we can live how we want with no strings attached, and anything less is oppressive. What comes to mind when you hear the word, Freedom?

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We are Somebody, not Something

When we label people by their sin, we take away their humanity. But every person who exists, or has ever existed, is God's creation made in His image. Objectification is evil and offensive because we turn someone God has created into an object for our own amusement, frustration, or pleasure. If we were to truly examine our hearts, I believe we would see that we are all objectifiers like the Pharisee above. Why do we do it?

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What Does it Mean to Objectify Women?

I wonder how many American women feel unjustified to wear the suit they love because they are out-of-shape, white as snow, or simply don't look as good as that girl in that picture. The Struggle is Real. Why? I think because we've grown up in a culture which has taught us to do this. But, I can't completely blame culture because I've chosen to think this way; to believe I am how I look instead of believing I am who I am inside…let’s talk about objectification.

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I Love You More With My Future - Interview

Today, I want to introduce you to my friend, Jess Brock. I've known Jess has been a part of our Clayton King Ministries family for over 10 years. She is currently a stay at home mom of two, married to the love of her life, enjoys yoga, traveling, and gathering people around her table. If you're in the toddler stage of life, you know that mom life can feel slightly stifling. If you're wondering about your future, this blog is perfect for you.

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I Love You More than My Dreams - Interview

Mollie is one of my favorite people. She has served me taking care of my kids every summer since they were in Elementary School and as a result we’ve become best friends. She is a Special Education Teacher who loves sports, trivia night, tavelling, and spending quality time with her family and friends. She is the best and I can’t wait for you to hear from her.

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4 Ways to Love Jesus More

Today's blog is brought to you by my wonderfully wise sister, Elisabeth Harper. She shares tips on how to love Jesus more than our dreams, in our community, with our future and more than ourselves. Her Tips and Tricks can be heard every week on the  Overcoming Monday Podcast. Today’s tips are her favorites from from my book ILYM.

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Stop Digging Up Unnecessary Pain

One of the biggest problems I’ve noticed with comparison is that I can feel like I’m constantly laying it down, putting it behind me, only to catch myself a few minutes later digging it back up, returning to old mindsets. The good news, of course, is that God isn’t doing the same. I love the picture of Him in this verse:
He has removed our sins as far from us as the east is from the west. (Ps. 103:12 NLT)

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Hey Moms, What Does "Strong" Mean to You?

As I sit, thinking about writing this blog to you, dear mom, I admit I am a little intimidated. I want to write a blog to you, but this world is made up of so many different kinds of women with so many different personalities and life stages. Some of you are married, some of you are single moms doing it alone and some of you have the help of a parent. By the time I consider your individual temperament, add in a husband's (or helper's) nature, and each of your children's disposition along with each of your life stages and economic situations...I might give up on it altogether! So, from the very beginning, I want to confess that I don't know everything about you or your situation, but I still have a desire to help you find your "strong" as a mom. I don't know if I can, but I hope you will give me permission to try.

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Getting to the Heart of Your Child’s Behavior - Ginger Hubbard

Do you feel guilty because you know you should be faithfully training and instructing your children in righteousness but you’re not sure how? Are you spinning your wheels with ineffective parenting methods such as bribing, counting to three, and threatening punishment in an attempt to get your children to mind? Are you frustrated because it seems no matter what you do, you just can’t reach the hearts of your children?

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Hey Wives! What Does "Strong" Mean?

If any of you have met my husband, you know he is a strong man. He is strong in his build, in his voice, and in his confidence. He is extremely extroverted, and so engaging that he makes fast friends. But underneath his confident exterior, there are weaknesses the everyday person doesn't see. His deep love for others and willingness to help them pursue their dreams often blinds him to their disingenuous motives. He is sometimes loyal to a fault. His deep love for me makes him defensive and angry when someone takes advantage of me. His deep love for our children sometimes spoils them (which they don't mind).

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Single Ladies, What does "Strong" look like?

Recently I spent some time with one of my favorite friends. Whenever we catch up, I am always amazed at her faithfulness to love Jesus with her whole heart, surrendering the parts of herself which feel broken so Jesus can heal her from the inside out. I want to share with you what she shared with me. Here's paraphrase of what she said: 

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